6 Ways to Respond to Conflict — Practical Tips and Warnings

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Understanding the 6 Ways People Respond to Conflict



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Find out the 6 common ways people respond to conflict—and discover practical tips on how to resolve core differences with this free eChart. Using bulleted lists, simple summaries, and practical tips, June Hunt makes conflict resolution easy-to-understand and easy-to- explain to others.

Some people are comfortable with conflict, while others prefer to avoid tense situations. Each of us begins to develop a style of handling conflict at an early age. Our personal ways of “fighting” come from our natural instinct, personality, and early family dynamics. Many of us are unable to defuse conflict because we are repeating the extreme patterns of childhood, either attacking or avoiding. By understanding how you AND others handle conflict, you are better equipped to defuse tense situations in a peaceful, effective, and God-honoring way.

In this free eChart, you will discover:

  • 6 ways people respond to conflict
  • The difference between “attackers” and “avoiders” in conflict
  • Dozens of practical tips and verses that will help you resolve conflict in a way that glorifies God.

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Conflict Resolution

Overall Rating: 4.5 Stars

We all have times when we disagree with someone. We know we shouldn’t react with anger and we shouldn’t avoid it either. But, it’s hard to know how to respond. And what is equally hard… is knowing how to help someone who is in a difficult conflict. What can you say to them? Should you say anything at all?

Unlike other books on this topic, June Hunt first helps you understand how you personally handle conflict and then shows how to better relate to those who handle conflict differently. Using relatable examples, she describes the characteristics of those who “attack” and “avoid.” Enjoy having bulleted lists, simple summaries, and practical advice on how to resolve conflict, reach a resolution, and respond to difficult personalities. Quickly find out the 6 different ways people handle conflict and how to effectively respond to them with this easy-to-understand book.

  • Easy-to-Understand. See what the Bible says about healthy (and unhealthy) forms of conflict by reviewing the lives of Esau, Jacob, Esther, David and more.
  • Practical. Get practical tips for conflict resolution, including 7 principles for responding (not reacting) to conflict. It also includes a helpful quizzes to see how you handle conflict and why.
  • Relevant. Addresses key questions, including:
    • What are the different ways people respond to conflict?
      And why?
    • How can I respond to critical people and difficult personalities?
    • How can I keep on forgiving someone after a major conflict?
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“I really liked how she used wonderful word pictures to describe different aspects of conflict and how to resolve it. The flow of the booklet is great and you can pick up in different sections, depending on what you’re interested in or dealing with at the present time.”—Paul Dare, customer review on Amazon”

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Adultery: The Snare of an Affair

Overall Rating: 5 Stars

More than 50% of all marriages are affected by an unfaithful spouse, according to recent research by Barna. Adultery is no small matter, especially for those who experience the intense pain of living with a spouse who breaks the marriage covenant.

Hopelessness. Loneliness. Despair. Anger. Revenge—There are many emotions that come up when someone finds out that their spouse is having an affair. But, God wants to bring peace, forgiveness, and healing to both the affected spouse and even the adulterer. Enjoy having reliable, practical, and shame-free advice when relationships don’t go as planned. Find out how to see common signs of adultery, how to confront an unfaithful spouse, and get practical advice on how to help those who have been devastated by an affair.

Covers the causes and characteristics of adultery as well as a roadmap to recovery:

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Codependency: Balancing an Unbalanced Relationship

Overall Rating: 4.5 Stars

If you constantly try to fix the problems of others and find it hard to say “No”— there is a chance — you may struggle with codependency tendencies. Sometimes addiction is easy to spot, but not always. Addiction to a relationship can be difficult to detect. So, how can you know the signs of codependency?

With relatable life stories, personal reflections, exercises, and self-tests, this quick-guide provides a simple, straightforward, and biblical framework for understanding codependency. Find out how to identify codependent thinking, realize the root causes of unbalanced relationships, and map out how to break the cycle of codependency. Compassionate in its approach and loaded with practical advice, this easy-to-understand book covers—

  • Key characteristics of codependency and how to identify a codependent relationship (profiles included)
  • What causes a person to be codependent and explains the difference between healthy dependency and co-dependency
  • Practical advice on how to break the cycle of codependency and establish healthy relationships—Covers 4 steps to victory over codependency, steps to building healthy boundaries, and how to alter the course of an unbalanced relationship, and much more.
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“My pastor recommended this book to me last year; it was perfect for me. I struggle with codependency… If you find yourself getting too attached to people and unable to say no then, this is the book for you. The examples and scriptures were excellent and easy to understand. I was able to easily take notes of points that applied to me and I have even used this book as an outline for helping others. — Pam Minot, Verified Customer Review on Amazon

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Dysfunctional Family: Making Peace with your Past

Overall Rating: 5 Stars

Often times those who come from a dysfunctional family can feel doomed to repeat the same mistakes and behaviors as their parents. June Hunt emphasizes that change is possible. Using the familiar Bible story of Joseph and his brothers, June reveals how God can use one family member yielded to Him to change the dynamics of an entire family.

In this 96-page book, June Hunt explains the signs, characteristics, and impact dysfunctional families have on children’s attitudes and behavior. She presents practical ways to break the generational cycle of dysfunction—giving those who come from this background hope and equipping those who minister to them (pastor, church leader, or friend) with practical insight on how to help.

  • Includes a quick overview and key definitions. Answers What is a dysfunctional family? What is a “functional” family? How does being raised in a dysfunctional family affect future relationships?
  • Reveals signs, symptoms, and common characteristics of a dysfunctional family, including chaos, control, denial, inconsistency, emotional indifference, instability, shame, and unpredictability.
  • Provides dozens of step-by-steps suggestions and practical ways to replace “old mindsets and behaviors” from unhealthy family relationships with God’s truth.
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Marriage: To Have and To Hold

Overall Rating: 5 Stars

You already know that there is no such thing as a perfect marriage. It takes time and effort. But, how can you make your relationship stronger? How can you help others build healthy relationships?

One of the biggest marriage challenges is miscommunication. Find out how to transform your marriage by deepening your understanding of your partner’s needs, improving communication, celebrating difference, and working through misunderstandings with this quick-reference book. Enjoy getting solid and biblical answers to tough marriage questions from someone who has help hundreds of couples grow in love and respect for each other. Perfect for those considering marriage, going through a rough patch with a spouse, or if you’ve been happily married for decades.

Packed with advice for building a healthy perspective of marriage, this book covers:

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“… there are constant references to scripture, faithfully pointing the reader back to the foundation for life itself… The book acknowledges the fact that there are typical marriage problems and advises solutions. One difference, however, between this book and many other marriage books is this: whether the person is a Christian or non-Christian, the writing gets right down to the roots, right down to the heart of the matter, which is essential in every marriage.”— Cherilyn Arnold, Customer Review on Amazon

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Friendship: Iron Sharpening Iron

Overall Rating: 5 Stars

Some friendships are life-giving while others just feel draining and destructive. Discover the traits that define a valuable friendship and how to detect and let go of toxic relationships.

God created us not to be alone, but to be in community with others. By design you need friends and family to be healthy, but not all relationships are good for you. Friendships are valuable, but sadly, some are toxic. From coworkers that encourage us to sin and make poor choices, or peers that put us down, learn to spot the 15 signs of harmful relationships. Enjoy having the 2 key factors you need for healthy and godly relationships at your fingertips! This 96-page Friendship book is packed with advice on friendship, including how to be a good friend, how to make new friends, how to spot the warning signs of unhealthy relationships (including codependency), and more. Includes tips on how to encourage people to pursue healthy friendships!

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” Excellent read! Highly recommend to anyone desiring to learn the true meaning of biblical friendship.”—Bruce Goodman, Customer Review on Amazon

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Reconciliation: Restoring Broken Relationships

Overall Rating: 5 Stars

God calls you to forgive others, but does he call you to reconcile every relationship? Are you suppose to just “let it go?”

Find out the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation in this easy-to-understand book by June Hunt. Discover how to forgive the “un-forgivable,” how to move past the hurt, and when to restore relationships by restoring trust. Featuring practical tips and insights, June Hunt answers tough questions about reconciliation, including: How do I know if I’m ready to reconcile a relationship? Should every relationship be reconciled? What can I do to show someone I want to restore our relationship? or How can I help others reconcile their relationship?

Discover the real truth that with God there is no relationship that cannot be restored as you cover key Bible stories, including David, Joseph and his brothers, Abigail, and Jesus.

Covers:

  • 9 differences between reconciliation and forgiveness
  • 20 signs of a hardened heart and how to discover the root causes for a lack of reconciliation
  • 4 goals of reconciliation and how to achieve them
  • A helpful “heart test”—includes 8 questions to help you reflect on your own heart and actions toward your offender
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“This material can be great for anyone who is in a relationship and/or marriage in which conflict exists. “—Larry Bennison, Small Group Bible Study Leader

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Sexual Integrity: Balancing Your Passion with Purity

Overall Rating: 5 Stars

Most people have a desire to find love. But, what does love look like? The world often confuses lust and love, making it easy to fall for a counterfeit version of what God really intended for relationships. So, how can someone stay pure in today’s world? How can you resist temptation?

Down-to-earth, transparent, and practical—this book tackles a tough topic in a biblical and relevant way. Answering questions like “How far is too far?” or “Is waiting worth it?” Sexual Integrity will guide you through common situations with practical advice, prayers, and scripture. From 10 practical steps to purity to 10 signs someone is ensnared in sexual sin, this 96-page quick guide helps you (and those you teach) find God’s guidance and strength to pursue a godly heart and lifestyle. It also covers how to find freedom from shame and past mistakes that you wish you could take back. It’s never too late to start choosing purity.

Be equipped with knowledge on:

  • 3 subtle seduction “hooks” to avoid
  • 5 Bible verses you should know on purity
  • Where to draw the line: How far is too far?
  • The #1 root cause for not maintaining sexual integrity
  • 7 myths about sex— and how not to fall for them
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” Really enjoyed this book by June. She tackles the issue of sexual purity from a biblical standpoint and does so in a very practical, hopeful way.”— Jordan Davidson, Verified Customer Review on Amazon

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Parenting: Steps for Successful Parenting

Overall Rating: 5 Stars

How can you raise well-adjusted children who are confident, happy, and follow the Lord? From preschoolers to teens, enjoy having a quick-reference book that provides tips and advice on parenting every age-level.

Parents play an important role in the development of a child— they help shape how children see themselves, how they see others, and even how they see the Lord. But, many parents have questions, thinking to themselves— Am I doing this right? How can I make sure I’m disciplining enough..but not too much? What should I do when they seem rebellious? This quick-reference answers these questions and more! Imagine having a simple overview that will give you practical advice that you can start using today!

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Singleness: How to Be Single and Satisfied

Overall Rating: 5 Stars

Some Christian singles are perfectly content—while others are not. Many feel like they are missing out because they’re missing marriage, wondering: Is there something wrong with me? When is it my turn? What if I never find someone? In Singleness: How to be Single and Satisfied, June Hunt reveals how to be happy being single, how to uproot common causes of discontentment, and how to find joy in knowing that God is our ultimate “need-meeter” for love, significance, and security.

Whether you are single for a season or single again, discover biblical truths about how God wants to use your singleness to fulfill His purpose and plan for your life. Perfect resources for anyone who is single, has friends who are single, or ministers to singles.

Includes Practical Tools and Tips on How to Develop a Healthy Perspective of Singleness:

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“This little book is the best book on singleness I’ve ever read. It is by June Hunt, who is a biblical counselor who has a well-known Christian radio program called Hope For The Heart. I am a single man, and have found this book to be very helpful and biblical. It gives practical, biblical answers to those seeking to find peace and contentment in singleness.”— James, Verified Amazon Customer Review

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Critical Spirit: Confronting the Heart of a Critic

Overall Rating: 5 Stars

We have all been wounded by hurtful words of others — whether it’s the constant nagging of a spouse, an overly critical friend, or a fault-finding parent. In this 96-page book, June Hunt shows how to respond, heal, and stop the cycle of criticism with the healing balm of the Word of God.

Harsh criticism—whether through hurtful words or disapproving gestures—can cause emotional pain, strain relationships, and stunt personal growth. At the root of a critical spirit often lie insecurities and unmet needs. For many, critical attitudes are “caught” from a home life where parents modeled this destructive behavior. Whether you feel constantly beat up by the biting words of others or whether you are personally struggling with an overly critical attitude, find out how to respond to harsh criticism and how to cultivate a caring spirit with this easy-to-understand book by June Hunt.

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“You’ll gain a clear perspective on the differences between a critical spirit and a caring spirit—and the tactics that fault-finders and nay-sayers use to excuse themselves for what comes out of their mouths. You’ll also learn how to stop the barrage of tongue lashings and how to respond appropriately in a way that aligns with God’s commands. “—John, Rose Reviewer

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Manipulation: Cutting the Strings of Control

Overall Rating: 5 Stars

Manipulation is the Number One guilt game played by narcissistic, controlling people.

This means manipulative and controlling people try to make you feel guilty to get their own way, regardless of what’s good for you. They’ll accuse you of insensitivity or disloyalty or a lack of Christian kindness, in order to pressure you into giving your time, your money, or even yourself into doing what they want—even though you are not being led by the Lord to do so. How can you know if you are being manipulated? What can you do?

In this 96-page minibook on manipulation, you will learn what tactics are used by controlling people, why you have been manipulated, and how to stop being manipulated. In other words, this Hope for the Heart minibook, Manipulation, gives Christians the confidence to say no to people so they can say yes to God.

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“June Hunt uses her experiences to teach us how to deal with manipulations, especially spiritual manipulations. She explains the difference between manipulation and persuasion… This little book covers all kinds of examples and situations of manipulation, even in the church. Most of us are probably blameworthy when it comes to using verbal manipulations, such as flattery, whining, and the guilt game to get our needs met. June presents Scripture from the Bible to help us realize that these habits are not pleasing to God…“—Ann Sanger, Rose Reviewer and Bible study leader

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